Do you know what annoys me ? When I am newly single and someone consolodates me with, "Don't worry, you'll find somone"
I always reply with, "Actually, I'm not looking, but thanks!"
I don't see why it comes as such a shock that I don't mind, and even enjoy, being single. Cute couples don't bother me, and I don't feel lonely having a night to myself in my apartment with me, myself, and I. Because those are some of my favorite people !
I'm not saying I want to be alone for my entire life, and that I'm opposed to love. I do however not believe in looking. Looking only leads to dissapointment. Who is anyone to judge someone, or have a "criteria" of what they want. Love is far too complex to ever write what you're looking for on paper <3
Like they say, nobody will truly love you until you love yourself. If you are single, and you constantly dream about a ficticious boyfriend/girlfriend; you should rethink things. Unhealthy relationships develop out of neediness, and I can guarantee you that no man or woman will EVER make you feel as content or happy as you can make yourself :)
Do I picture myself ever in love in the future ? Yes. It will happen when the time is right, but until then I'm not going to force anything. Because making friends is a choice, but falling in love is out of my control.
<3 Thanks for reading !
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